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The qualities I'm looking for in a man. This isn't all of it, but it's a lot of things. Here goes:

Someone who-

• knows who they are.
• uses their abilities and interests for God's will.
• open to change-scenery change might be a large part of my life.
• who will be my knight in shining armour to save me from myself & from the world & a lifetime alone & from sadness; even when I feel like I don't need anyone.
• is okay being alone & likes spending some alone time.
• will travel with me.
• will kill the bugs, snakes, rodents when they freak me out.
• enjoys helping other people & does it frequently.
• donates: money, time, effort, etc.
• can support me when I'm down, depressed, sad, when I want to pursue my dreams.
• has short term & long term goals & re-evaluates them frequently enough & periodically.
• will go on drives with me.
• is okay with silence between us when we are together.
• is open & blunt & yet respectful.
• prefers not to fight, but to discuss issues & works on things & takes to heart the effort that I feel is needed from him on my behalf.
• will take me out on date night even when we are knee-deep in kids & stress & will just spend time with me & on me & money on me.
• feels I'm worth it. Whatever "it" is.
• is a Christian, strong in his faith & always trying to grow.
• will pray with me & for me.
• will pray with me @ meals.
• wants to have children with me.
• is open to adoption-because I want to adopt.
• will move me to further contemplation, who will provoke further thought & expansion of ideas.
• challenges me & helps me grow.
• wants to grow alongside me.
• doesn't believe in divorce in the same way that I don't.
• wants to change the world: one act, one service at a time.
• will go on mission trips with me.
• is secure enough to be okay with me discussing him, joking about him in sermons.
• isn't intimidated about me being a minister, but who LOVES that about me.
• will be as adventurous, explorative, excited, & open as I am & with me.
• loves meeting & getting to know new people.
• will cook for me.
• surprises me occassionally with fun events & things I like.
• will learn a language with me.
• will follow me anywhere in the world where I feel like I'm meant to be.
• is humble & who is not vain & tries to remind himself to be humble.
• will dance with me & sing with me.
• likes a variety of music.
• trusts me & doesn't get jealous about my guy friends.
• is a charmer, a sweet talker.
• will never stop pushing me in the right direction.
• will take on challenges with me.
• is an active member of a church.
• will sing to me.
• knows me better than I know myself sometimes.
• loves my family & whose family I can love.
• who is proud to have me @ his side & to show me off.
• will be silly with me.
• makes me laugh.
• will teach me things.
• will cry for me & to me.

That is all for now.